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| Topic Started: Sep 6 2009, 04:34 PM (4,312 Views) | |
| Salamanca | Sep 6 2009, 04:34 PM Post #1 |
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Ok So the purpose of this thread of to talk about our past, Present relationships. You can ask advice about relationship in here. Also can talk about funny stories as what kind of crazy girlfriends you had in the past. Also... If your young and wonder about relationships and how to get a girlfriend we (forum) can help you. I'll post my past experiences later after i see this is not a dead topic. |
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| Phaith | Sep 6 2009, 04:46 PM Post #2 |
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Um, since this only for relationships and how to get a girlfriend I guess I'll give it a chance... How do I get a girlfriend? What if she's not like... interested in me at all. =< I think a girl might get weirded out if I ask her out, so I've never tried. |
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| Salamanca | Sep 6 2009, 05:48 PM Post #3 |
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Well I have a motto which is " There is no such thing as out of my league" She might not be interested right now but try to talk to her. Don't come out strong also, Just talk to her in school or where ever u know her ask her for her # and call her or text her and from there u can ask her what is she doing a weekend if she says Nothing then ask her to watch a movie. Slowly make yourself be there for her. Girls like that. They like a good listener. Caution: you do this for too long you make her think you just friend material. And not date able |
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| PlasmaNin | Sep 6 2009, 07:18 PM Post #4 |
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Hmm, interesting. Slowly but not too slow. To me (And I have basically the same situation as him except we just started "hanging out" in the sense "I hang out with her and her friends but just on occassion) it seems like it would arouse suspicion by suddendly wanting to hang out with her. Then again, I have little experience with this and I'm a bit of a paranoid dude. |
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| Ushi-U-Saru | Sep 6 2009, 07:20 PM Post #5 |
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So what. It's not a big deal to let them know you're interested. If you're still in school ask them out to lunch a few times if you're uncomfortable with a night date. If it's easier, after you establish a bit of a connection go for the "real" dates. |
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| Salamanca | Sep 6 2009, 07:25 PM Post #6 |
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But that would make them (girls) push you away (depends if the girl likes you or not) If she does like you then yeah tell them how you feel. But make sure that they do like you tho if they don't like or they are indifferent to you or not know you exists try the method i posted above. |
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| Ushi-U-Saru | Sep 6 2009, 07:29 PM Post #7 |
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From my experiences, asking a girl out on a simple date does not push them away (unless they're genuinely not interested in you, in which case there's not much you can do). It can "arouse suspicion" that you're interested, but that shouldn't be viewed as a bad thing. In fact, it's pretty much the point (well, that and spending time with them). I'm not saying you should confess your undying love and worship of them, but you shouldn't be afraid if they start to wonder if you have romantic feelings for them, it's not a big deal, and if you're pursuing them it's inevitable. |
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| Salamanca | Sep 6 2009, 07:31 PM Post #8 |
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You are right sorry i was talking about telling them you like them, but yeah ask her out don't afraid just go for it. Edit: I was talking about as in how he should start to make her like him and a date it's the 1st step. Give her attention but don't a stalker either find the right balance Edited by Salamanca, Sep 6 2009, 07:33 PM.
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| Phaith | Sep 6 2009, 07:34 PM Post #9 |
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I get along with a lot of girls I just don't think they see me as anything more than a friend. I think they would get weirded out if I did something like that, and I think they already see me as like, just a good friend. And a lot of them have boyfriends. |
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| Salamanca | Sep 6 2009, 07:39 PM Post #10 |
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well its better to try and fail and move on with your life than regret the rest of your life with that biggest question most of people ask to themselves "What if i had done things different back then" My advice try it don't worry about what people might say. There always the chance that things will turn great. Give it a try |
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| Ushi-U-Saru | Sep 6 2009, 07:43 PM Post #11 |
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Maybe they're interested in having a boyfriend and a girlfriend, Phaith. =P |
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| Phaith | Sep 6 2009, 07:49 PM Post #12 |
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No I don't think any of them are like, bisexual or anything. And I don't think I would be comfortable with that. |
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| Salamanca | Sep 6 2009, 07:55 PM Post #13 |
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Oh your a girl I am so sorry i didn't know I hope you don't get mad. But my advice doesn't change if you like someone go for it. stay close but not to close. EDit: Does anyone have a crazy story about an ex-girlfriend/boyfriend? Edited by Salamanca, Sep 6 2009, 08:02 PM.
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| Phaith | Sep 6 2009, 08:03 PM Post #14 |
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Get mad? Is it upsetting that I'm a girl or something? Or... You don't think lesbian relationships are ok? |
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| PlasmaNin | Sep 6 2009, 08:05 PM Post #15 |
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I think he was hoping you wouldn't get insulted. |
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| Salamanca | Sep 6 2009, 08:14 PM Post #16 |
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Completely ok with lesbians. I though you were going to get mad cause i though you were a guy and i didn't want to insult you. :( On topic- My crazy story is that i tried to date 2 girls at the same time. Their names are Chelsea and Megan. this happen in during my senior yr while football season was happening. I started to talk to Chels for couple of weeks and she looked really good and we went on couple of dates but she moved to Colorado we kept talking and had a long distance relationship but i met Megan and in the same day i met her she became my girl. And i was able to keep both relationships good until Megan PM Chelsea tell her she was my girl. Chelsea broke up with me and cuz me out but i broke up with Megan but i was able to come back with Megan when i saw that Chels wouldn't take me back. In that same night Chels txted me and apologized to me idk why she did it but she apologized to me and told me she wanted me back. So i told her i was with Megan again she was ok with it as long i broke up with her soon. It took be about a week to broke up with Megan because she kept threaten me that she would kill herself which she never did. Thats one of the craziest things/stories that has happen in my love life Edited by Salamanca, Sep 6 2009, 08:16 PM.
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| PlasmaNin | Sep 6 2009, 08:22 PM Post #17 |
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I know someone who had a real life relationship and a 'net relationship at once and considered which one to dump since she didn't like to cheat. Ironically, her real boyfriend was cheating on her and dumped him. Then they somehow got back together. I haven't heard about the 'net guy since then. Good thing too, I had a bad feeling about that dude. Heh :P Edited by PlasmaNin, Sep 6 2009, 08:23 PM.
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| Phaith | Sep 6 2009, 08:24 PM Post #18 |
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It's ok, I was just messing around with you. I'm not really bi or lesbian or anything, but if anyone here has an real questions they'd like to ask, I don't mind giving a girl's perspective. ^^ I'll start with saying dating two girls at the same time is probably the quickest way to end two relationships. Edited by Phaith, Sep 6 2009, 08:26 PM.
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| Lightning XIII | Sep 6 2009, 08:29 PM Post #19 |
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I have relationship complex although I'm single, my ex-girlfriend kept stalking me said she wanted to come back with me but I rejected her many times. She even tracked me in Facebook in which I have to block her. Sometimes she's just creepy to me. Am I running away? |
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| Salamanca | Sep 6 2009, 08:30 PM Post #20 |
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I know thats why I haven't done it sence then. @Plasma-nin haha Yup there bad people out there in the net' I'm not one of them. :) but the aftermath of that drama was that me and chelsea broke up with each other 10 times haha 5 times was me and 5 from her. @Lightning XIII Have you tried telling her to leave you alone sometimes being mean (not to mean) helps with a stalker. Just tell her to leave you alone and to move on with her life. Edited by Salamanca, Sep 6 2009, 08:31 PM.
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| Lightning XIII | Sep 6 2009, 08:37 PM Post #21 |
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Well, I haven't told her anything but she should know that already since I kept ignored her many times. She was being emotional sometimes said she can't love anyone besides me. That's when I found that I regretted having relationship with her. Teenager's love is suck sometimes.
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Sep 6 2009, 08:39 PM Post #22 |
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Be careful though. I've never had that but had plenty of stories from my buddies of how the girl threatened to kill herself in that situation. Everytime it was only for attention though if that makes you feel any better. @Plasma-nin: Net/Long Distance Relationships MOSTLY never work out to well. |
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| Lightning XIII | Sep 6 2009, 08:40 PM Post #23 |
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That's one thing that I'm worried though. Gave away life easily. Geez, what are they thinking... |
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| Salamanca | Sep 6 2009, 08:45 PM Post #24 |
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Then being mean wont work. Go easy on her and if she goes suicidal on you tell her your not worth it. Tell her she deserves better something like that make her feel better so she wont go suicidal. Thats what happen to me with Megan she never tried to kill herself. She kept threaten me so i would stay with her. Go easy on her will help. |
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| sweendawg | Sep 7 2009, 07:56 AM Post #25 |
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i currently have a girlfreind my buddy hooked me up and weve been going steady for about a month. but when it comes to relationship issues, i'm a major flirt and sometimes i flirt with girls too young (3 or 4 years) for me, by the time i find out their age they're it to late and they start stalking me. how do you guys figure out a girls age? because i'm a Jr. in highschool and i can't tell and they get insulted or lie when i straight upp ask them. |
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